
Just had to talk....ignore if you don't want downers.
Daddy died a year ago today. What a year!! What an amount of change is ones life in such a short amount of time. I don't want to sound like some public service announcement, but all the stupid cliches are TRUE....
Don't sweat the small stuff......you waste too much time
You can't take it with you......enjoy the time you have
Tomorrow is not a promise.....you don't even have any guarantees for the next minute
Make a Difference....once you're gone...what's really left??
Anyway....I'm just thinking a lot, and have been over the last year...about what's really important. I think that helping others is probably the most important and the hardest thing to do. Everything in this world is "me me me...mine mine mine...gimme gimme gimme." One of Naricyn's favorite things to say is, "Hey, what about me?" We laugh now, but how horrible to live an entire life with that mentality.
I give this to you because I know I get it back someday.
I share with you so you'll thank me and tell people how great I am.
I work so I can get the praise of my superiors and move up in ranks.
I love so that I can have someone to take care of my needs.
I help you so that I can look good to others.
I think we all know people like this...some of us have these people living in our homes....and I don't think they realize that Naricyn's 4 year old train of thought hasn't left their 30+ year old station. These people basically don't care about anyone but themselves and have learned how to use EVERYONE in their lives to get what they want. So much of a gift of life to be used this way. Scary to me that I was so naive to it....even to my 40th year. I always thought that people were generally good, giving, God-made creatures. Now I know that most take God's gift of life and become self-serving.
There wasn't anything that my parents had that they wouldn't give to someone else. I wish now that they had been a little more self-serving and left less for me. For me, they were priceless and their loss will affect the rest of my days.